Feeling scare but you really want to fall in love?

She is asking me how? and here is the thing I shared with her this evening... to help her to feel less scary. Cause it is scary I know. When the 1st time you fall in love, it is not so scary because it is happening and you don't even know anything and you are just so excited it is happening. But then there is a break up which causes pain. So then the 2nd time, the 3rd time, the 4th time.. It's a little bit scarier, scarier and scarier... So what can you do when you are feeling scare but you really want to fall in love?

So I want you to picture falling in love is like a roller coaster. Ok? And falling in love let me tell you is more like riding a roller coaster but it is completely in the dark. That's kind of what falling in love is. You know there is gonna be loops, you know there is gonna be down, you know there is gonna be slow motion, there's gonna be a build up, there's gonna be moment you overly feel sick.. All you feel is excited. You know that all those things are going to happen but you have no idea in what order and when. It is kinda like you are getting on a little roller coaster and you are going into a very dark room where lots of those things are gonna to happen. Doesn't sounds that great right? Haha. But that is really fun! It is one of my favourite life experiences. People like this feeling and they want to feel that because it feels alive and exciting.

So here is what stops you. The 1st thing is don't bring your baggage onto the roller coaster. The roller coaster is gonna have to shut down if you bring all your baggage, all your hurts and pains from all your exes. Ok? so you cannot fall in love with somebody, I mean... this is a wonderful person in front of you, you wanna fall in love, you can't be scanning him for signs of your ex, or u know talking your friends and getting scared of.. ooh, that means that, that means that... No.. you can't do that. So what can you do? you can remind yourself that this is a new person in front of you. You are a new person too. You are not the same anymore. You probably learnt something. You are different, they are different. And you got an opportunity in front of you to fall in love and go on this ride. So don't bring your baggage.

The 2nd thing is get ready! Because you are going to go out of control. And you have to be willing to go out of control. I know.. I know.. people don't like that. You are like: "Ooh, I can't do that!" I mean it's like NO, that means you can't know, you can't try to figure it out, you can't talk to all of your friends, all your psychics and your energy healers or anybody u symbol on your team of knowing.. No, actually you don't get to know. You have to be willing to say that it is you can do it if you feeling afraid to falling in love. You can say to yourself: "I don't know! Yes, I don't know. And I'm gonna show up anyway because I want this." And then you can feel your desire, your desire to feel alive, feel connected, feel loved, feel seen, feel heard, feel understood.. All of these deep desires that we as human beings have. But just remember you have to be willing to go out of control, you can have all those amazing little amazing experiences.

Tell yourself: "I don't know but I'm ready and here we go." I mean YES, this is a new experience, you're a new person, this is a new moment, and let see what happens.. Ok? Good luck!