Let it flow

The past is your lesson, the present is your gift, the future is your motivation. Let your brain decides everything in your real life routine and let time decides everything in whatever kind of relationships. There is no need to rush into something. I don't judge people or things until it really happened because it is fair to me and the other party. There is no need to be over-thinking, it kills happiness.

It is true when life test you with something you never thought before this, you will become more appreciate with what you have, and you can evaluate yourself either you are good enough or actually was a bad person. By facing the problem honestly, it will remind you who are you actually and how you behave and your attitude towards others before this. I realize that I am not perfect and the fact is I will never be perfect, and I always make a mistake in my life but not to repeat the same mistake again and again. Besides that, I always hurt other people feeling but I'm trying not to. Now, I knew my weaknesses and will always improve myself to be a better person.

The most wonderful thing in my life is that I am lucky because I have my family and a few best friends who stand behind me, who are very supportive and never leave me alone when I am in trouble. I really grateful and thankful because I have such people in my life. Because of them, I always be the strong and independent one to make them proud of me and do not worry about me for the mini minor tiny small matters in life but to feel safe and happy when being with me.

Everybody is different and therefore handles situations in different ways. There is no one single effective method to deal with a problem or a person, there is always alternatives. Be a kind person who embrace positive thinking and practice acceptance. Commit each morning to fully accepting what is happening in the now. Believe there is a reason why this is all happening and trust that it is for the best. Negative feelings are like holding a hot piece of charcoal expecting to be thrown at someone else. Only the person holding it gets hurt. Therefore, do not hate or wish anything negative to that person. We should always love ourselves more and practice gratitude. Enjoy the sensation of knowing you did everything you could. Be confident that in the future you will never regret making the wrong decision and will never think about “what could have happened” because you made an effort. Make a list of everything good going on in your life that you are grateful for. Include attributes that make you a special and desirable person. Keep adding elements to this list, including all the things we take for granted, such as our health, our education, our families, our friends, and our skills. You might ask why should I do all these? Well... Only you can change how you are feeling. No one else can. Remind yourself every day that life is good and that eventually the pain will pass. Life is happening right now, and there is no reason to waste more days feeling sad about the past. Change your perspective about life, loss, and pain; learn to view everything that happens to you as a positive thing. You can’t control someone else’s decision, so focus on what you can control: your thoughts, your attitude, and your reaction.

Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in your life, but your behavior decides who will stay in your life. So please try to be a positive person in life.

Cheers my dear!